What a Woman Who Used to Be Drug Addict Can Teach Us About Recovery
Elizabeth Garrison, a researcher at the National Center for Child Traumatic Stress, has a Ph. D in Clinical psychology. Childhood abuse is the focus of her researches. Garrison has spent many hours listening to stories about children abusing drugs or alcohol. Now she tells her own story.
Elizabeth’s work includes conducting therapy with kids and their relatives. Parents of those kids that are suffering from chemical dependency are always frustrated. They can’t understand why their children have chosen to carry themselves in such a harmful way. Parents try to find the reason why their kids have problems with drug or alcohol abuse.
Drugs and alcohol destroy people, poisoning all the spheres of their lives. The closest people of drug addicts can’t understand the behavior of their loved ones. Don’t drug addicts realize that the best way to stop ruining their lives is to stop using chemicals? Parents would do everything in order to know what their addict children are thinking about. Elizabeth Garrison finally provides them with such possibility, telling her own story of drug abuse.
Elizabeth’s Christian family life only seemed to be normal. Having a tyrannical father, girl suffered from domestic violence, child abuse and other unpleasant factors. In order to hide from the horror of real life, Elizabeth started using drugs. As a drug addict she had to live on the streets, rushing from foster homes to treatment centers. Despite everything, she found the strength to overcome addiction and save her life.
Using writing as a way of healing, Garrison released a book “Wounds of the Father: A True Story of Child Abuse, Betrayal, and Redemption”. With a help of this book the author tells about her problematic childhood, descent into teenage drug addiction and struggles to overcome it.
The author states that the book healed her. At the same time this book may heal its readers. It may help parents of drug addicts to understand their children better. Those who suffer from drug addiction will realize that there are many ways to be cured. Everyone has enough strength to turn the life around. The author wants readers to know that they aren’t alone in their struggles. She says, “Most importantly, I wanted to show them that their life wasn’t over simply because they might have wasted away their adolescence.”
At the age of 18, Elizabeth had so many problems including prison time and different illnesses. She didn’t graduate from school. The society didn’t consider her to have a happy future. However, Elizabeth has overcome all the difficulties. Now she has a Ph.D. in clinical psychology. Working at one of the largest trauma research centers, she helps those who struggle with chemical dependency issues.
As Elizabeth has a 6-year-old son, she understands the desire of parents to make their children happy. She suggests that the best way to do it is to accept your children and love them. A person may look angry and defiant. At the same time, he or she will be sad and lonely on the inside. Even if your children push you away, try to understand how frightened they are.
Elizabeth Garrison’s case is the best illustration for her inspiring quote: “I want other teenage girls to know that no matter what kind of a beginning they’ve had, they can have an amazing finish.” Start changing right now. You have enough strength to do it.